Is There A Pleasant Way To Be Rejected?

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Mere Intricacy

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01-23-2013

Okay and if a guy is asking for your number/to hang out, is it unfair or unreasonable to jump to he's asking you out.


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vcadoda

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01-23-2013

Call them fat, problem solved.


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Mere Intricacy

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Call them fat, problem solved.
That's mean.
Going for a nice way!

Also they're not all fat.

Maybe just ugly, or dumb, or having bad grammar.

It would also be a lie, I only care if they're dumb.


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Eualcides

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01-23-2013

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Mainly directed at guys.


If you ask a girl out, how would you want to hear the no;

"We can still be friends?" -? Too generic/Usually a lie.

"Sorry, I'm not interested" - Do you need a reason for this?

Just wondering what is the politest way to reject someone.
Don't ask someone you dumped to be your friend. It's a d!ck move that puts them in an awkward spot. If THEY want to be friends, fine but relieving your own guilt by asking to be friends is just dumb and self-centered.

"I'm sorry, but it's not working for me because of A. B. and C. Goodbye" - direct way to break up


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vcadoda

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That's mean.
Going for a nice way!

Also they're not all fat.

Maybe just ugly, or dumb, or having bad grammar.

It would also be a lie, I only care if they're dumb.
Then say it straight so they don't get their hopes up, unless you want to deal with them after.


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Mere Intricacy

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Don't ask someone you dumped to be your friend. It's a d!ck move that puts them in an awkward spot. If THEY want to be friends, fine but relieving your own guilt by asking to be friends is just dumb and self-centered.

"I'm sorry, but it's not working for me because of A. B. and C. Goodbye" - direct way to break up
I said reject not break up.


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Mere Intricacy

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Then say it straight so they don't get their hopes up, unless you want to deal with them after.
If a guy's asking for my number and asking to "hang out".
Do I just reject the friend request, or let him know I'm not interested in more.
Or is that being too presumptuous.


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Jesus the Friend

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01-23-2013

"I know it took a lot of guts to approach me, but I am really not interested.
Sorry."



I've never understood why the concept of "I'm not interested" is so cryptic to females.
You don't need to get fancy.

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If a guy's asking for my number and asking to "hang out".
Do I just reject the friend request, or let him know I'm not interested in more.
Protip to all women;
No man wants to be your "friend" or your "best bud", straight up; they want to nail you but are too puss to take risk or rejection.
You don't have "guy friends", you have a bunch of pathetic losers who are trying to work the odds from the inside.
Ironically, that never works.


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Mere Intricacy

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If the shoe was on the other foot I would not accept I'm not interested. I would need to know what and why.
I also think guilt is associated.


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UrsaMinor

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01-23-2013

The best way to let a guy down, for you, is to tell him you fantacize about murdering him and it's better you two stay apart.