Am I in the wrong?

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IS1d69e2e5726f5f

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12-12-2012

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Originally Posted by Dobagoh View Post
Should anyone ever date BDSandM, you must tell her every detail of your life as you go, otherwise you are "betraying her trust".
if I remember right, bdsandm never gets a 2nd date. so you're pretty close here, W


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Sailor Cosmos

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12-12-2012

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Originally Posted by Dobagoh View Post
Should anyone ever date BDSandM, you must tell her every detail of your life as you go, otherwise you are "betraying her trust".
Says the guy who got dumped by his GF.


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Mere Intricacy

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12-12-2012

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Originally Posted by BDSandM View Post
He could have told her before he added his ex. Open-communication is essential in relationships. He knew his GF had problems with trust, why didn't he think to tell her beforehand?

Kind of like how you hide the side of you that makes fun of nerds on the internet from your GF. It's like a betrayal of trust.

While telling her would have been open and honest, people have the right to a degree of privacy, and not allowing him to have this is lack of trust.
It is not him being untrustworthy, it's that she just doesn't trust him.


I firmly believe this situation in no way reflects on him and does reflect entirely on her own insecurities.


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Dobagoh

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12-12-2012

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Originally Posted by BDSandM View Post
Says the guy who got dumped by his GF.
Still spreading lies about me, I see.


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Sailor Cosmos

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12-12-2012

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Originally Posted by Mere Intricacy View Post
While telling her would have been open and honest, people have the right to a degree of privacy, and not allowing him to have this is lack of trust.
It is not him being untrustworthy, it's that she just doesn't trust him.


I firmly believe this situation in no way reflects on him and does reflect entirely on her own insecurities.
I don't understand the whole privacy excuse. If you want privacy, don't date.


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Mere Intricacy

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I don't understand the whole privacy excuse. If you want privacy, don't date.
A relationship is between two individuals.
Two different people with separate entities.

Believing someone doesn't deserve privacy, leads to a childish dependence.

Even when in a relationship you should who you are out of it.


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c4lm

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12-12-2012

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I don't understand the whole privacy excuse. If you want privacy, don't date.
Na. My diarrhea schedule will never be revealed to any girlfriend I have.


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Sailor Cosmos

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12-12-2012

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Na. My diarrhea schedule will never be revealed to any girlfriend I have.
You don't have much of a relationship.


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Gazzi

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12-12-2012

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A few weeks ago (right before thanks giving) I added one of my ex gf's on FB, I did this because I was trying to get a hold of someone I used to play LOL with before she started dating said person which inevitably led to me deleting them and cutting all ties with them...Anyway I deleted her a few days after I added her because I only added her so I could message her about one thing.
I'm surprised no one else has brought up that you can, in fact, message someone on Facebook without adding them as a friend.


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Reconsul

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12-12-2012

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she doesn't want to be with me.

shes pregnant
How's she gonna prove u did something you didn't do?