Are you not supposed to be friends with your friend's exs?

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De El Ze

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11-12-2012

If it's making my friend depressed, and I cherish this friend, I would cut ties. Thing is, as a young male myself, I see the vulnerability in exes, which makes it that much easier to seal the deal.

It's a scumbag move, I know, but dozens of men do it all the time and don't see what their doing is wrong. This might be your case.


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DevTheHero

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11-12-2012

Which friend do you value more? The one with the **** or the guy you've known for eight years? Come on, it's not that hard to answer yourself.


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Elan Tedronai

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11-12-2012

I'm friends with both my exes.


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Oyxl

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11-12-2012

Wasn't there some college irl movie about guys being friends with girls and how their individual perception of that relationship was? I strictly recall every guy saying that "Yes he would do her if he had the chance (adding' just look at her')", while every girl thought they could just be friends.

I think that point of view is dictating your ehm..guy friends' vision of that socalled platonic relationship you two have.


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nIXne

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11-12-2012

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Originally Posted by goompsterr View Post
Yes, I've known him for 8 years
Have you tried putting yourself in his shoes? It's irrational, yet reasonable at the same time. As a close friend, he probably feels somewhat betrayed that you hang out with his ex even though you claim you don't have feelings for her. He may feel like you're taking her side instead of his. You've known him for 8 years, I'm sure you can be somewhat empathetic about his situation.


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Coedeed

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11-12-2012

People still play WoW?


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Nightlivia

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11-12-2012

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People still play WoW?
Only around 10 million.


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Exoctane

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11-12-2012

If your friend isn't friends with his ex then you need to choose, him or her.

If they're still friends then it's acceptable to be friends with her as well.


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Elan Tedronai

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11-12-2012

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Originally Posted by Exoctane View Post
If your friend isn't friends with his ex then you need to choose, him or her.
LOL children


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Exoctane

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11-12-2012

That's bro code

or you have no pen(i)s


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