If i text her first

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Mere Intricacy

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12-04-2012

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Originally Posted by Jesus the Friend View Post
Because women want attention from what they perceive as high value men.

Even if the exact same words and actions, in the exact same context are used by lower value men, they will be interpreted as "Creepy" or "Harassment".
Basically, women are hypocrites.
/Shrug
So if she sees him as an attractive "high value man" she'll want his attention.

If she doesn't, i.e. she see him as a lower value man, it will seem "clingy"..
This is on par to "creepy"...

Logical ... no?


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Jesus the Friend

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12-04-2012

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So if she sees him as an attractive "high value man" she'll want his attention.
If she does it will seem "clingy"..

Logical ... no?
What the @#!*$&% are you talking about?
Am I getting trolled?


So if she sees him as an attractive "high value man" she'll want his attention.
Yes, this is axiomatic.

If she does it will seem "clingy"..
What? who? where ...? where did this come from?

It's like saying "If men like attractive women, then hamsters suffer from diabetes".
It's a complete non-sequitur... are you stoned?


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CatchandKiss

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12-04-2012

So long as you still follow 2/3 rule you should still be ok.
2 texts sent for every 3 received.


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Mere Intricacy

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12-04-2012

So I forgot a"n't" use your common sense.


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Gazzi

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12-04-2012

texting rules have always been pretty silly to me, but what you're asking depends on the context of the relationship.

texting a girl you met at a bar vs. texting a girl you've been mutual friends + mildly flirting with for 3 months are two very different beasts.

without context for the given situation, I'll assume it's a mutual friendship that is relatively young.

unfortunately there is a game some women play where they wait to see if you will text them first. however, this is pretty much indiscernible from lack of interest at all. you pretty much need to go with your gut. if you find something interesting to text her about you can feel less bad about potentially being weird because it's a genuinely interesting thing, but odds are if she is also interested in you she's just as concerned with coming off as weird or clingy.

TL;DR: FOLLOW YOUR HEART.


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Colonel J

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12-04-2012

If you are going to follow certain conditions just to please girl you might as well chop your dick off right now and give it to her in a jar.


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Umbasa

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12-04-2012

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Originally Posted by gazzi View Post
tl;dr: Follow your heart.
i gotcha bro, im going for it


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Mere Intricacy

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12-04-2012

What does tl;dr stand for?


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Umbasa

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12-04-2012

ILL JUST bite the trollbait and say too long didnt read.


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Mere Intricacy

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12-04-2012

Oh really...
Been wondering ...
I keep wanting it to be "to make a long story short"


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